Unsettled in new Home

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Dear Roseline, We have been here in our new home 2 and a bit years and my family and I have all felt displaced and unsettled. Something is not quite right! Your advice would be appreciated. – Jordan, Australia

Dear Jordan,

There are many reasons why someone would feel unsettled. I will list only a few with dot points – this list is far from being exhaustive!

Could be that…

• Was this new house built on a aboriginal burial site?
• Do you still long to your old home?
• Did you say goodbye to your old house (equally important if you rented or owned it) ?
• Did you take with you in this new home newly bought antiques or mirrors that had been used by another person?
• Did you bring in with you in this new place objects of recently deceased people?
• Is your house located near one of those really high electric poles? or high electric fields?
• Is your new place ‘closed in’ and were you used before to have a large garden or lived on a big property?
• What is across of your main entry door?

More details from you would be welcomed so I could give you further suggestions. Cheers!

I am happy to help all my readers help themselves with Feng Shui tips.
Even though this blog doesn’t replace a Feng Shui consultation with me, I do welcome simple questions via email to which I will answer by placing an article on this blog so that all followers can learn.

Roseline DELEU
International Feng Shui Master, Consultant, Author
www.fengshuisteps.com

 

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Deceased Jewelry

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Reader’s question

Dear Roseline,
May I ask you a question regarding jewelry that belonged to a loved one. Sadly, I lost my mother a week ago and she gave me the ring that was hers for 7 decades. I wonder if it’s ‘good feng shui’ to safely wear it or if I simply have to clean it? For the past 2 years it had been locked in a safe as she was scared that it would have been stolen in the retirement home where she spent her last years.
Thank you for all your articles on your blog, they have already helped lots of my friends. – X.D. (Australia)

Dear X.D.,

Firstly accept my deepest condolences, it is always hard to loose a loved one and certainly is a challenge too wondering what to do with material possessions and memories.

Your mum’s ring will be carrying her energies especially if she had been wearing it for many decades. For example, I received a while ago an very old and beautiful pearl neckless from an old friend of mine who herself had received it from a deceased friend who survived time in concentration camps. The first time I wore the neckless, Ifelt like something was strangling me. I thus put it several times outside in a ceramic bowl during full moon nights. I repeated this 3 months in a row.
When I wore it 3 months later, after those clearing rituals, the old clip broke. I brought it to a jeweller and had it repaired. Ever since, I wear it either around my neck or as bracelet and each time, I think of my friend who since passed away. She was a strong and courageous lady. I believe that this trait of character is re-activated in my memory every time I put on the neckless. MAybe it has inflenced my courage and perseverance too?

Thank you for your answer, Roseline, I now will start the clearing process and will keep you posted. X.D.

Roseline Deleu
Feng Shui Master, Consultant, Author & Inspirational Speaker
www.fengshuisteps.com

 

Threats to Sacred Sites

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I recently read this article from Alanna Moore that I met and have known for probably two decades now (doesn’t time fly!). I though I’d share it with you as well as her upcoming workshops dates in Australia (Alanna now lives in Ireland).
Enjoy your reading – Best regards, Roseline DELEU

Threats to Sacred Sites   by Alanna Moore.

Harm has been done to many of Ireland’s sacred monuments. Not just victim to vandals or stone stealers, it often results from archaeological work done on them! Or, in many cases across the land, in a wave of religious fervour around 1950, crosses and concrete statues were erected willy-nilly over on top of ancient sites! Talk about sacrilege!

Not to mention the modern phone masts puncturing the sacred hilltops in more recent times, such as my local one, in the photo. This was taken at the summit of Sheemore, the great fairy mountain of Co. Leitrim, that seems to have been a Bronze Age citadel.

It reminds me of a conversation with a Korean student recently. She described how, when the Japanese invaded Korea they went around and systematically punctured the ground at the sacred sites with big Earth acupuncture stakes, that were left in the ground to destroy the atmosphere, poison the feng shui. A sort of psycho-spiritual terrorism. That’s similar to the effect of the communication masts in the landscape, they are emasculating the soul of the land, amongst other things. (I’m able to speak of this as someone that has never owned a mobile phone, nor do I ever wish to have one!)

I wrote in my book Divining Earth Spirit about winning a battle in 2004 against a huge phone tower that was going to be put up on top of an iconic, sacred mountain in Victoria, Australia – Mt Franklin. National telco. Telstra was knocked back in court on account of the registered historical heritage of the site, as it is an Aboriginal initiation ground. (When you drive into Mt Franklin’s volcanic crater you will sense why it was considered special.) Several other similar Aussie battles have been won since, because they were able to cite the precedent of our rare win.

So if a nasty communications tower threatens a sacred hill or mountain near you,  which is a lot of places these days, I suggest you find out its heritage status as a possible means of protecting it. Or be pro-active and insist that it gets one, where-ever this may be appropriate, to prevent toxic irradiation of the site in future. The fairies and guardian spirits of these places can’t protect the land alone. Not without our help!

Extracted from Geomantica magazine no 68, August 2017, at www.geomantica.com

See the full magazine HERE.

Alanna Moore returns to Australia after moving to Ireland two years ago. She will be running several workshops in NSW, Victoria and South Australia from November to December 2017.

Deniliquin NSW
2017 Nov. 3rd – 5th
Backyard Geomancy – Garden Dowsing and Power Towers with Alanna Moore
Bookings – Suzy – troppix@mac.com

Willunga SA
2017 Fri 10th Nov. evening and Sat 11th afternoon
Backyard Geomancy – Garden Dowsing and Power Towers with Alanna Moore
Bookings – Andries, aj@andriesjohannesen.com

Warburton Vic
2017 Nov 25th – 26th
Backyard Geomancy – Garden Dowsing and Power Towers with Alanna Moore
Bookings – Ralph –  [goog_162408974]ralphballard@optusnet.com.au

Maldon, Vic
2017 Sat. Dec. 3rd
Backyard Geomancy – Garden Dowsing and Power Towers with Alanna Moore
Bookings – Rosalind  –  [goog_162408973]rosandalbert@gmail.com

Too dangerous to help by email

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I often receive emails from readers asking for Feng Shui tips. As an answer for them, I  write a post on this blog for all of you so you all learn.

Unfortunately, there are times where I cannot help, when things are too challenging and in this example below, you can read through the lines that this person is in a very difficult situation.
The best is to suggest her to see a professional counselor as an email or a post, in this case, will never replace professional guidance and I’m sure that you can read here that she needs it.

Email received early April 2017
“I needed to run from my mother as far as I could as well as from my sister. I am still at her house I entrenched in her misery about my life because I couldn’t bring myself to wash her away. I walked out this afternoon and but back in again, it is destroying me and my dog. I wish I had left. 
I cannot believe how awful a place  and people can make you feel or do destructive things to yourself. I thought going to stay with mother would be protective… I but I was totally wrong. I’ve lost all self confidence and am destructive in my thinking to myself, I can’t believe it.  In reality have I  known this deep down and therefore left years ago to a productive life. Unsure how to fix myself out of it. I left my life behind five months ago and nothing but misery and self doubt since coming here. – N.N.

A Feng Shui consultant does look at the psychology of the home but will never replace the help for the person that she will seek with a professional medical doctor, psychologist or psychiatrist.

Always follow common sense.

Roseline Deleu
International Feng Shui Master & Author
www.fengshuisteps.com

 

 

 

Test your Feng Shui Bed Placement

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Dear Roseline, Since moving the bed what I thought was a better fengshui position, less good came… I believed fengshui bed position would do so much good? Oh dear 😦 – A.N.

Dear Reader,

I very seldom suggest clients or readers about bed directions calculations, simply because people are then stuck onto one belief rather than doing their own experiences and be empowered to find out by themselves.

In your case, you probably calculated your direction based on another school of Feng Shui, following another master. Everything happens for a reason, this time, it was for you to get empowered and turn your bed around again.

I always suggest to everyone to test their directions for one week at the time (maximum), the results are shown usually within a couple of days. You monitor and write down what has happened during that week and when you had the best week, this is your best direction.

Yes, indeed, either you move your bed around your room or you simply move the orientation your bed without moving the furniture – which can be fun sometimes 🙂

Keep moving till you monitor your best direction and things will settle.

Best regards,

Roseline Deleu
International Feng Shui Master & Author
www.fengshuisteps.com

Too independent Girl

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This example of pink bedroom for a girl has been taken in a furniture shop. It inspired me to write you this little post with a few warnings as the little girl who would live there could well be too independent too soon!

1. Firstly, avoid double beds until late teenager years! A child would feel lost in a large bed like this and could feel the need to become too independent too young feeling heavy responsibilities in life – leading then to potential lost of self-confidence.
2. A single bed would ideally be placed in a corner, so the child will have the support from both walls.
3. The frames illustrated in this photo show a single girl playing on her own. Does your child feel lonely? Not very social? Instead decorate with photos of smiling and happy children.
4. The corner of the draws is a poison arrow that is sending uncomfortable Sha Chi energy to the sleeper (who actually will always sleep poorly in those conditions).
5. Decor on top of the draws are much too adult and too heavy for a girl’s bedroom and would only collect dust.

Top Feng Shui tip – when decorating your child’s bedroom, bend your knees and look from your child’s eyes height to feel how the decor could affect your little one.

Enjoy your Feng Shui experiences! 🙂

Roseline Deleu
International Feng Shui Master, Author & Visionary
http://www.fengshuisteps.com

Relationship challenged

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Dear Roseline,

Sorry to say but the relationship with my husband is rather challenging. He is impatient with our 3 y.o. son who is very stubborn (like his dad and myself) so as a matter of fact our couple is suffering. I can’t seem to speak kindly, feeling too tense; on top of that, my husband wants to control me (and everything) non-stop and does nothing.
Would you have some Feng Shui tips for us all? For the moment the rivalry between our son and his dad has the child clinging to me constantly.
Thank you so much – A.X.

It is essential to have all frames at the same level – BUT here above, the example translates into two couples divorcing: a woman looks away, the man on the right too, while the couple in the middle are looking at each other – the middle couple are the two lovers who are together now!

Dear A.X.,

A few suggestions as I don’t have many of your personal details:

1. I hope that your 3 y.o. sleeps in his bedroom and not in your marital bed
2. Place a photo of the 3 of you on his bedside table at your child’s eyes height
3. Display a recent happy and smiling photo of your couple somewhere in your apartment and/or in your master bedroom (photo without the element of water – so no lake, no ocean, no river etc)
4. Are all your frames hanging at the same height?  Indeed, in your case it is essential – because having one on top of the other or one higher that the other would translate into having one of you in the couple being ‘above’ the other… so in other words: ‘controlling’
5. Do you have equal access to both (each) side of your marital bed? If bed is stuck in a corner and only one is accessible then only one person in the couple has a say the other one not.

Feng Shui Yours,

Roseline Deleu
International Feng Shui Master, Author and Visionary

Place Grid on L shaped plan

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Many readers have plans more complex than just a simple rectangle. Today, let’s see how you can place the Feng Shui Magic Square (grid) onto a “L” shaped plan following the Black Hat Feng Shui School principles. For the Black Hat school, your front door corresponds to the Chi Kou (mouth of the Chi) – no matter where you are in the world, your organs will always be placed at the same spot inside your body – hence why for the Black Hat placement the Chi Kou = your entry will always be in one of the 8 – 1 – 6 areas.

How to proceed and place the Ba Gua or Magic Square grid can be found in my E-book “Your First Easy Steps to Feng Shui” an easy to follow book filled with plenty of examples and tips.

This unit has 2 grids, the red one is the first one where Chi reaches. It is the principal grid. Second grid is the orange grid. Thus you have here 2 possibilities to adjust Feng Shui around your home, this is great!

Balconies are not included as they are outside the unit walls. They can be considered like your jacket pocket and can contain lots of interesting goodies 😉 … likewise on our balconies, we can add flowers and keep our entertaining areas clean and neat which all will contribute to activate Chi.

Feng Shui Yours,

Roseline Deleu
International Feng Shui Master & Author
Feng Shui Steps

House number 2

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The apartment or house numbers ‘7’ ,  ‘3’ , ‘8’ and ‘9’ have been posted recently and you can either click on blue highlighted links or scroll under this post. Today let’s have a look at the number ‘2’.

The numbers of our houses or apartments are believed to influence our lives at least to a certain extend.

Illustration of this article shows a house number  ’884’ which when we add  8+8+4 = 20 -> 2+0 = 2. The 884 number also resonates with numbers 8 and 4 that will be important to read in my previous and next posts.

This house number is nicely decorated with birds and two of them look in the same direction which is very auspicious for the couple living in that house. The reader who sent me this photo told me that the birds are giving her good news – what an amazing intent! Well done !

Of course there is much more than a simple number to influence your life!

Two is an balanced number in Feng Shui and symbolizes duality, relationships, marriage, couple, partnerships. Living in an ‘2’ house, to a several digits number adding to ‘2’ or a house number containing ‘2’ in the digits, has a positive influence on the growth and insights of the relationships of its inhabitants.

Buying or living in a ‘2’ house could well be THE place where you (finally) meet someone special, rekindle your relationship or simply find your inner balance between your feminine and masculine sides.

For some of you, living in a ‘2’ is an excellent home for 2 people who are going to share space as roommates, lovers or as wife and husband. You will be tuned into the energies and feelings of the others with whom you share your home. Living in a 2 home you will have a strong desire for peace and harmony through diplomacy. You will often find yourself standing back and tuning into situations rather than advancing your point of view. You will find that you can fully and lovingly understand the perspectives of others. In a ‘2 ‘ home you will begin to develop a sensitivity to subtle energies of nature and music and even the auric fields of others. Perfect home to explore and develop your psychic and intuitive abilities. Excellent home for a marriage or partnership to grow.

All this and more can happen as long as your sector ‘2’ in your garden and inside your home – of course – carry the energies of the Earth element!

May this articles inspire you towards positive outcomes in your lives.

Feng Shui Yours,

Roseline Deleu
International Feng Shui Master & Author
www.fengshuisteps.com

 

House #3

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In my last post, I mentioned a few insights on number ‘8’ houses. Today, let’s have a look at the number ‘3’. House numbers are believed to be influencing our lives. Illustrations of this article show a house number 93 which when we add 9+3 = 12 -> 1+2 =3.

Of course there is much more than a simple number to influence your life!

Three is an auspicious number in Feng Shui and symbolizes the past, respect, health and family.
Thus, it looks like living in an ‘3’ house, to a several digits number adding to ‘3’ or a house number containing ‘3’ in the digits, has a positive influence on its inhabitants. Buying or living in a ‘3’ house is known as being a place where inhabitants will be solving things from the past, family or/and health.

People say that most of the health challenges come from emotional imbalance – thus, the way that you managed your emotions in the past during challenging events. Living in a ‘3’ house will help you review it all and encourage you to reconsider a few points within your today understanding.

When realising that in any case, it is no-body else’s fault and that blaming is way out of fashion – you will make steps towards wisdom, personal researches and new choices that will take you to the path of perfect health, appreciating your past and family they way they are rather that the way you’d like them to be. In a ‘3’ house, you start respecting yourself and take responsibility for your actions.

The way to perfect health is following doctor’s orders and combining them with good food, sport, positive attitude + with a good Feng Shui House Entry as well as the correct position of your bed.

The example of this ’93’ house is actually all what you’d like to avoid as this entry and home design is only leading struggle to the inhabitants!    😦  Let’s see what you should avoid!

This ‘3’, home illustrated here will never give good results as a ‘3’ could do! – WHY?
Well, start looking from the front door… Stand in the entry and look out – what do you see?

• a path ‘cut’ on an angle instead of a solid and curved that should be best to lead to the front door
• the statue on the floor next to the door seems representing a stressed person with arms and legs crossed
• when looking out, we see the slope going down to the garage, so Chi goes first down… how can it reach the entry door?
• front door glass panels are showing down and right again towards the garage slope
• this house is located in a cul-de-sac where there is no exit for the Chi -> unfortunately all inhabitants of the cul-de-sac will be worrying and res-sassing their same old thoughts and same old ideas all the time
• windows are all different dimensions (no harmony) which could symbolise each time another outlook on life and perhaps a lot of mind changing
• why designing a narrow balcony where no-one will ever go above the garage to breathe the exhaust fumes? This unused balcony costs a lot of money and doesn’t add anything to the house.

Ideally, BEFORE building, call a reputable Feng Shui consultant who has experienced many building designs. Is it is a worth while investment, as you will be living in your new home for many years to come.

If the house is already built, it is never too late… as I have experienced so many suggestions for you to live better. Which means that investing in a Feng Shui consultation could well be a life changing experience!    🙂  ->  Good news!

I consult and I train Feng Shui Practitioners world wide. I run individual classes that are real Journeys with your Master. I’d love to count you among my practitioners in your country. Contact me and let’s organise this soon together.

Feng Shui Yours,

Roseline Deleu
International Feng Shui Master & Author
http://www.fengshuisteps.com