Test your Feng Shui Bed Placement

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bed, best direction, Deleu, direction, feng shui, health, lucky direction, orientation, placement, position, Roseline, steps

Dear Roseline, Since moving the bed what I thought was a better fengshui position, less good came… I believed fengshui bed position would do so much good? Oh dear 😦 – A.N.

Dear Reader,

I very seldom suggest clients or readers about bed directions calculations, simply because people are then stuck onto one belief rather than doing their own experiences and be empowered to find out by themselves.

In your case, you probably calculated your direction based on another school of Feng Shui, following another master. Everything happens for a reason, this time, it was for you to get empowered and turn your bed around again.

I always suggest to everyone to test their directions for one week at the time (maximum), the results are shown usually within a couple of days. You monitor and write down what has happened during that week and when you had the best week, this is your best direction.

Yes, indeed, either you move your bed around your room or you simply move the orientation your bed without moving the furniture – which can be fun sometimes 🙂

Keep moving till you monitor your best direction and things will settle.

Best regards,

Roseline Deleu
International Feng Shui Master & Author
www.fengshuisteps.com.au

Could-do-better Shop Entry

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black tiles, business, create a good entry, entry, feng shui, jakarta, roseline deleu, shop, steps, tiles, tiling, white pebbles

Pursuing my walk in this Jakarta very Chic and State of the Art Commercial Furniture and Decoration Center (see previous post), I choose to show you an entry that is not welcoming at all  😦

I went to this Center several times and sadly never saw any clients in this particular show room that offers beautifully designed and made furniture.

In fact, the entry to the shop sees 3 large shiny sets of black tiles surrounded by white pebbles. The combination itself is a good idea – the little white pebbles are quantities and are looking good around the black tiles (symbolizing the element of water that we need in an entry). The biggest problem is that the tiles are not placed in a Feng Shui friendly way. They are scattered and showing no stability towards the showroom entry itself.

If the Chi doesn’t feel welcome, nor will the clients.

What could the tiler have done? Instead than using large tiles, he may have chosen to curve the path and use tiny mosaïques tiles f.ex. black with maybe a touch of gold or silver and he could have possibly have a better effect.

A challenge would remain for this entry though, because the tiles that have been placed in the Commercial Center itself are slanted and (those on the left of this photo) and create a guillotine effect.

A good Feng Shui encourages curves, circles and avoids sharp angles and poison arrows in an entry.

Feng Shui is the Art of Placement and can be applied everywhere!

Roseline Deleu
International Feng Shui Master & Author
www.fengshuisteps.com.au

Look up to your ceiling

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colour, decoration, Deleu, feng shui, friendly, idea, indonesia, jakarta, light, lighting, Roseline

When I travel the world, I discover new decoration ideas that are Feng Shui friendly and lovvvvvvve sharing them with you!

I recently walked in a very chic and expensive furniture and decoration shop in Jakarta (Indonesia) where I saw this great idea of decorating the electric wire or chain that is holding your light fitting to the ceiling.

It is a very affordable idea and can easily be done by yourself at home as long as you keep fire and safety in mind!

Your old light will get a new life; you add a ‘chic’ touch to your plastic one. Change colour as you wish. It’s fun.

Enjour your Feng Shui changes!

Roseline Deleu
International Feng Shui Master, Author and Visionary
www.fengshuisteps.com.au

Too independent Girl

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bedroom, child, children, decor, Deleu, feng shui bedroom, girl, loosing confidence, responsibilities, Roseline, sleep

This example of pink bedroom for a girl has been taken in a furniture shop. It inspired me to write you this little post with a few warnings as the little girl who would live there could well be too independent too soon!

1. Firstly, avoid double beds until late teenager years! A child would feel lost in a large bed like this and could feel the need to become too independent too young feeling heavy responsibilities in life – leading then to potential lost of self-confidence.
2. A single bed would ideally be placed in a corner, so the child will have the support from both walls.
3. The frames illustrated in this photo show a single girl playing on her own. Does your child feel lonely? Not very social? Instead decorate with photos of smiling and happy children.
4. The corner of the draws is a poison arrow that is sending uncomfortable Sha Chi energy to the sleeper (who actually will always sleep poorly in those conditions).
5. Decor on top of the draws are much too adult and too heavy for a girl’s bedroom and would only collect dust.

Top Feng Shui tip – when decorating your child’s bedroom, bend your knees and look from your child’s eyes height to feel how the decor could affect your little one.

Enjoy your Feng Shui experiences! 🙂

Roseline Deleu
International Feng Shui Master, Author & Visionary
www.fengshuisteps.com.au

Relationship challenged

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child bedroom, child clinging, control, Deleu, difficult child, feng shui, frames, love, relationship, rivalry, Roseline, stubborn, tips

Dear Roseline,

Sorry to say but the relationship with my husband is rather challenging. He is impatient with our 3 y.o. son who is very stubborn (like his dad and myself) so as a matter of fact our couple is suffering. I can’t seem to speak kindly, feeling too tense; on top of that, my husband wants to control me (and everything) non-stop and does nothing.
Would you have some Feng Shui tips for us all? For the moment the rivalry between our son and his dad has the child clinging to me constantly.
Thank you so much – A.X.

It is essential to have all frames at the same level – BUT here above, the example translates into two couples divorcing: a woman looks away, the man on the right too, while the couple in the middle are looking at each other – the middle couple are the two lovers who are together now!

Dear A.X.,

A few suggestions as I don’t have many of your personal details:

1. I hope that your 3 y.o. sleeps in his bedroom and not in your marital bed
2. Place a photo of the 3 of you on his bedside table at your child’s eyes height
3. Display a recent happy and smiling photo of your couple somewhere in your apartment and/or in your master bedroom (photo without the element of water – so no lake, no ocean, no river etc)
4. Are all your frames hanging at the same height?  Indeed, in your case it is essential – because having one on top of the other or one higher that the other would translate into having one of you in the couple being ‘above’ the other… so in other words: ‘controlling’
5. Do you have equal access to both (each) side of your marital bed? If bed is stuck in a corner and only one is accessible then only one person in the couple has a say the other one not.

Feng Shui Yours,

Roseline Deleu
International Feng Shui Master, Author and Visionary
www.fengshuisteps.com.au